After having both my kids I would often miss having my smaller body. Even now, a few years later when I feel healthy, strong and flexible, I still sometimes miss the body I had prior to pregnancy.
I may never have that body again or I maybe I will. Either way, I've made peace with the body I have right now.
Everyday I appreciate more and more the amazing feats my body has accomplished in creating my two children and all it's done over the years to build this home we love, give time and energy and sweat to the relationships and work and projects that bring me so much joy.
The joy I get everyday watching my kids grow is a gift that a few stretch marks or upsizing of jeans will never come close to taking away from me.
Maybe there have been sacrifices your body has had to make over the years pursuing school, work goals, building relationships, or family.
If you ever look back at pictures of your younger, healthier, or fitter self and find your mind making critical remarks about your body, your food choices, or other choices that affect your health, I want you to think of all the things you've created and accomplished.
I want you wear your imperfections like battle wounds and badges of honor.
You and I are just humans after all, steeped in a "Diet Culture."
The reality is that most diets don't make us feel better about our bodies or our health. They makes us feel worse. They create another thing we are supposed to do perfectly in order to get results and this often leaves us feeling like a failure. Like we'll never be good enough.
But the diets, the sweets, the comfort foods, Netflix binging, alcohol or anything else you are judging yourself for -- these are not the problem.
The problem is the disconnect.
If you're feeling guilty about any of these things, it's probably because deep down you really crave connection with yourself, with your body, with others round you more than any of these things.
Under all our surface cravings, we crave a journey of self-discovery towards healing our relationship with our body and ourselves. The part of us that knows we are so much more than our body, our work, or our roles in society.
When we tune into our bodies signals and cravings we re-gain confidence in ourselves, agency over our health and our lives. We become motivated to make the right changes that are unique to our own well-being journey.
Cooking and preparing foods in my own kitchen has long been one of my favorite (of many) ways to reconnect with my physical needs and bodily cues.
It's so empowering to feel like I have the ability to nourish my body with biome healing foods and respond to cravings, cues and signals in my own kitchen and home on my own time.
That's why I created this free Gut-Healthy Recipe Booklet (click to download) of delicious, biome-nourishing sweet and savory snacks and meals for you.
Keep nourishing your body and soul 🙏